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5yo taking forever to go to sleep

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Whatevertheweather · 12/06/2012 21:52

DD was 5 in march so reception year at school. She's always been a relatively good sleeper but the last 3-4 months she's been taking 2-3 hours to fall asleep. She will call down about various things even though we try and cover all bases before we say goodnight. She goes up to bed between 7-7.30pm on a school night and around 8pm on a weekend. She is totally shattered in the mornings and really struggles when I wake her at 7.30am for school. At weekends/school holidays she will sleep until around 8.30am.

We always have a calming story before lights out and a chat to make sure she's got anything off her mind. But she'll then call down/play quietly in bed/lie there for hours before dropping off to sleep. She does want to go to sleep but says she can't. She has a black out blind. I think she is getting enough stimulation/exercise she walks to and from school most days (about 1.5miles in total) and does swimming and gymnastics after school. Weekends we try and do swimming/cycling/walking/soft play. She seems to enjoy school and is getting on really well there.

Sorry its so long! Does anyone have any suggestions?

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habbibu · 12/06/2012 22:03

Have you tried story CDs, etc? DD has an old iPod touch, which we've loaded with all kinds of stories - her current favourites are How to Train Your Dragon and Mr Gum, but there are loads of short stories, etc - she listens quietly and drifts off. I always listen to radio/ iplayer in bed, and can pretty much guarantee that I'll fall asleep bang in the middle of something I want to hear...

Beamur · 12/06/2012 22:07

Maybe 7/7.30 is a bit early?
My DD goes through patches like this, and if she is still awake an hour or more after she's gone to bed, I actually get her up - take her out of her bedroom and do something else for half an hour, have a drink, watch some TV and then put her back to bed. She usually sleeps ok then. It's the same tactic I use with myself when I can't sleep.

Whatevertheweather · 13/06/2012 10:16

We did try a later bedtime as I thought maybe she wasn't quite tired enough beamur but it took just a long for her to fall asleep.

I will try the story tapes habbibu good idea.

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habbibu · 13/06/2012 12:10

You can get loads from the library - we keep getting Mr Gum ones from there.

yumyum · 14/06/2012 00:08

Exactly the problem we're having Whatever! Our DD will be 5 next week, so Yr R as well and is regularly still awake at 9.30-10pm despite going to bed at 7.30pm. We have persevered with a reward chart for a few months now and although that worked well for a week or so, even that isn't working now! ARRRGH....pulling our hair out..

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