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What's going on with my 5 month old!?

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SalsaP · 09/06/2012 20:31

Hi. My LO is 5 months old and has become really difficult with his sleeping over the last week. He is quite a sleepy baby in that he needs to go down for a nap after 90mins of being awake. If he doesn't then we are all in big trouble!

Anyway, for at least the last 2 months he has been quite easy to put down. He has his daytime naps in his moses basket and night time he is in a cot. In both places I have been able to put him down awake but sleepy and, sometimes with a little help, he will fall asleep easily. He tended to nap for 1-2 hours 3 times a day and sleep through from 8pm til 6am at night. So for about the last week things have REALLY changed. When I put him down, day or night, he really protests. He whinges and moans and this will often end up in all out screaming. His arms and legs will be flailing.If he does manage to fall asleep, which is rare, he will wake himself up after 1 sleep cycle, (45mins) with his flailing arms and legs. During the day I have often had to resort to putting him in the pram or car seat and then walking/driving for up to 2 hours. When I do this he falls asleep in minutes. At night we have to be more persistent, and he is usually at his most tired, so after lots of grumbling and crying we will normally manage to get him to fall asleep. He will wake a couple of times in the night whining and with some shushing he falls asleep again fairly quickly.

I don't understand what could be making him so unsettled. I'm not really seeing any signs of teething. He has been playing with his gums but thats been going on for weeks and its no worse now than it has been. Does anyone have any ideas on the possible cause and what I may be able to do to help? Its a real test on my patience looking after him at the moment and I'm beginning to struggle.

Thanks all.

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ovenchips · 09/06/2012 20:38

Search mumsnet for 'sleep regression' or google it.

It sucks but it's not anything you're doing/not doing

This too shall pass.

Modernmum19 · 09/06/2012 20:42

Is his milk still satisfying him? My LO is also 5 months and started a similar sort of behaviour a few weeks ago. His sleeping pattern is almost identical to your LO's. I know the guidelines say its best to wait for 6 months before starting weaning but I have started giving LO a little bit of baby rice in between his breakfast and lunch, only 2-3 spoonfuls and he has returned to his normal behaviour instantly. With my LO it was just a case of needing that little bit more to eat to get him back on track.

SalsaP · 09/06/2012 20:45

I wondered about sleep regression but I thought that just affected their ability to settle after a sleep cycle. I didn't realise it also affected putting them down in the first place. He seems completely against being put down to bed as he whinges the second you put him in his cot/moses.

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SalsaP · 09/06/2012 20:48

Modernmum19 thats interesting. He is a big baby and loves his milk - usually has about 35 oz a day. He seems happy enough on it, and I thought he may wake in the night for milk if he wasn't satisfied, but perhaps he isn't happy.

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SalsaP · 09/06/2012 20:53

I forgot to mention that he is also being quite a monkey with his bottles. He seems very easily distracted and unsettled here too where I often have to sing and play games to keep him focused and stop him wriggling off of my lap. Needless to say feed times are much longer at the mo.

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Modernmum19 · 09/06/2012 21:09

That's exactly what my LO was like, he seemed to be enjoying his bottles and he too was on 35oz or there abouts. I was apprehensive about giving him solids before 6 months but my mum suggested it so I thought I'd give it a go when he started to lose interest in his bottles. It's quite funny how similar our babies seem to be, hopefully it is just a simple fix for your little one too. I was petrified I wasn't doing a good job or something was wrong with LO and was so relieved when he settled back to his usual happy self. It was quite distressing as from the day he was born he has hardly cried unless he's hungry, needs a change or got a bit of wind, so I got a bit paranoid.

crazy88 · 10/06/2012 04:51

I read somewhere that something happens to their brains at this age and they realise that they are separate people, so for a while they do become clingy and hard to setle and will wake up wondering where you are. Because of when it happens a lot of people think they are ready fir solids and wean them early but this us unlikely to make any difference. I have gone through this with dc1 and dc2 and about to do so again with dc3 and from memory it lasts a few weeks and then calms down again. Being calm and consistent helps x as does gin Grin

GnocchiNineDoors · 10/06/2012 04:56

My dd is 6mo and ive had this too. I now have shifted to bottles (where possible) given in her bedroom in quiet and dark before a nap. Thhat has stopped the wriggling. She niw naps in her bedroom niw too. Has gone from three 45min naps a day to two half hour ones and one 2/3 hour one.

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