Dear Mumsnetters, I wondered if anyone has experiences with a similar situation: an acquaintance whose child is 4 and has been going to the best school in their town (in the North) over the last year has just received a letter from school stating that her child has learning difficulties which are so severe that he should go to a special school. Apparently the first indication of this was 2 months ago when the school suggested he may have problems and the mother asked them to prove it, after which a psychologist assessed him. The child is from a non-english speaking home and has difficulties expressing himself in English, he probably also has some learning difficulties. THey do not seem to be on the level which comes across as below a threshold that prevents him studying in a normal school.
I will ask the questions regarding assessment and level of learning difficulties which requires changing schools in the disabilities section of mumsnet but if anone has any experiences with such assessments, please share them. BUt I would also like to ask have you come across top, or generally grade 1 schools making efforts to "get rid of" children who may bring their scores down? The tone of the letters to the mother has apparently been very harsh rather than supportive so it sounds that they are actively trying to push the mother to withdraw her son because of such attitudes towards her and her son.