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daddy discipline needed?

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youngmummy17 · 24/04/2012 21:07

ds is now 16 months always been a good baby until a few weeks ago, his hitting me and other children screaming waking in the night and screaming for hours if i take his milk away (his still breastfeeding at night) throwing things and today for the first time when i told him no he laughed at me and carried on screaming at me and then laughing when i say no! what i'm asking is, is he just at the naughty age? (terrible EARLY two's?) or is he lacking some male influence? ds 'father' won't have anything to do with him no matter how hard i try! is ds needing that telling off from a stern male voice or just some attention even from a dad? i believe boys look up and need their dad's more, i was always been more 'scared' of my dad just as he was a lot sterner with me! am i over thinking this, is it just his age or am i just not enough for ds?

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catherina70 · 24/04/2012 21:21

I don't think children need to be afraid of their parents to be honest and if yours do not have a male influence they are not neccessarily missing out on anything. be strong. be positive.

splashingaround · 24/04/2012 21:23

He is still good, normal not naughty. 14 months to 3.5 and they are mostly bonkers:)

Pick as few battles as possible, be kind and calm and one day you miss the mayhem.

boringnickname · 24/04/2012 21:32

Im sorry that you feel this way, the last thing your ds needs is to hear stern male voice. Just keep on doing what you are doing, im sure you are doing a sterling job. If the father doesn't want to know, you cant do anything about that - just make sure he pays his contribution via the CSA. My DD1 had nothing to do with her "sperm doner" as he didnt want to know, it was far far better that way. Just forget him and concentrate on your son x

CecilyP · 24/04/2012 21:36

He's just a baby. He isn't at a naughty age. He isn't doing things you are not happy with just to be naughty. I don't think you have a very realistic idea of how babies this age do behave. One-year-olds are completely impulsive and far too young to look up to a male role model. You are enough for him, but I wonder if you are perhaps quite isolated and could do with some practical support from time to time.

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