DS2 has been a voracious thumb sucker since birth. He sucks to get himself to sleep at naps and bedtime, he'll do it whilst he's asleep (I can see it on the video monitor!) and also if he gets upset (not often as he's a fairly contented baby). I don't have a problem with his thumb sucking - it's good in a way that he can self-soothe - however I noticed yesterday that his palate is already a little irregular on the right hand side where he sticks his thumb in and no longer completely symmetrical with the left hand side. Is this the start of irreversible damage to the palate? I've read on the Internet that thumb sucking can lead to crooked teeth, over bite, lisping etc but they usually say it's ok if you get them to stop before the adult teeth come in. Will the palate really correct itself when he stops? I've no idea how to make a baby this young stop!
I've tried giving him a dummy but he just spits it out.