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IBP and parents tittle tattle

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BekkyBoo · 30/03/2012 16:33

Hi ppl, Looking for help and information about IBP's my ds's school has placed him on one. The thing is i have no idea what it all means or what is going to happen? Ds didn't have a great start to reception school there was a few minor incidents. Ds has a very strong sence of fairness and he would often stand up to the older children if he thought they were being unfair to his friends.
At hometime today the Head told me that ds had laughed at a child who's mother was dead, As you can imagine i was shocked at first but when ds explained it to me like this.......

Boy A, Why does your mum never pick you up from school?

Boy B, Because she is dead...

Boy C (the child who's mum is deceased) She died of a snotty nose.......
It would be funny if snot came down from the sky ....

DS Laughed.......

I am becoming really angry that my son has been allowed to become the scapegoat. Its not the first time either, A child in his class blamed him for something when he was not even in the room!! it was only that the teacher noticed. Its like its the parents are telling the children to blame him ( paranoia) Why was boy A & B not reported????

I know Ds is no angel but on the wall of his class the children have written what makes each child special and Ds's says that "he always tells the truth".. Which i know to be true... Why do parents rush to tell the headmistress tittle tattle????
I hate going to pick him up :o( it gets me down

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exoticfruits · 30/03/2012 22:02

I think that you mean an IEP which stands for Individual Education Plan. They can be for help in a subject e.g. often literacy, or they may be for behaviour.
Don't worry-they are designed to be helpful. You will get a say, you see what it says and have to sign if you agree. If not discuss it.
It sounds as if he has got a name for 'being naughty' but at the same time he is very young. I think that 'always tells the truth' is lovely, but of course it can also be a bit brutal. It is difficult to know without seeing him.
The person at school that will be dealing with the IEP is called the SENCO-(Special Educational Needs Coordinator) so I would make an appointment to see her/him.

BekkyBoo · 19/04/2012 14:49

Thanks for your help. I have spoke to the headmistress and have asked for a daily report. See how that goes :o)

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