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Dyspraxia/Dyslexia

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Pammym · 09/02/2012 17:37

Firstly, apologies that I have not been active on here for quite some time but I really would like some advice regarding my 5 year old DS. He is in Reception and tonight his teacher had a quick word regarding his speech and his motor skills. With regard to speech, I agreed that he should be referred for speech therapy as he does still struggle with certain sounds. He has received therapy in the past due to repeated ear infections and the subsequent hearing issues which ensued.

The second issue was a bit more worrying. She said his motor skills are not really developing as they should i.e. his writing is still huge and his pencil grip awkward. He is rather jerky sometimes in his movements and he finds it difficult to sit still even for short periods. These are things I had noticed and was a bit concerned about but now the teacher has also raised it, I am more worried.

The other thing I have noticed is that he does find it v. difficult to get blending of sounds. For eg. I can be sounding out a word, almost saying it, and he will come out with something random which sounds nothing like the word. I have half-jokingly said to my husband that I think he could be dyslexic but with the whole motor skills thing, I am wondering if there is something going on.

Would really appreciate hearing any advice/experience.

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MotherPanda · 09/02/2012 17:46

Firstly - this is a good thing. Difficulties being picked up on at the beginning of your sons education is fantastic, and means there is plenty of time to find the right help to support your sons development.

I'm Dyspraxic - and I'm one of those Dyspraxic and proud types as I see it as a difference, not a difficulty. What you've got to remember is that there will be some things your son is going to be better at than other people, and some things he will be worse at. People who are dyspraxic/dyslexic generally have there brains wired a little differently, and it can be a gift. 10% of the population are thought to have autistic traits.

I can't help you education wise, becuase my own Dyspraxia wasn't picked up on till I was at university (it's a bit late to 'change my ways' now). My husbands dyspraxia was muttered about all through his school life but he never got any support, I think things are a lot better in schools now. Hope some other mumsnetters can come along soon to help out.

I just wanted to say - chin up :)

survivingwinter · 09/02/2012 20:54

See if you can get an Occupational Therapy referral to look at the fine motor issues. There may be a pencil grip to help or they might recommend writing on a sloped board or using other specialist equipment. My dd is 4 and has fine motor problems and we are getting a laptop supplied through OT.

Have school suggested an IEP?

IndigoBell · 09/02/2012 21:03

Most people don't just have dyslexia, they have it in combination with dsypraxia, asd or adhd.

www.dyslexiaadvice.co.uk

Pammym · 10/02/2012 12:39

Thanks so much for individual messages. I am going to see if I can get one of those foam pencil grip helper thingies and will also talk to the teacher about what other help she thinks he could do with.

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