Hi everyone. I am having great difficulty with my dd2 who was 3 in Jan. About 8 months ago she came out of daytime nappies, willingly and well. She regressed badly and so went back in them for a month or two and then willingly came out again and appeared to be doing well. However fairly quickly she started having wee accidents and this has continued virtually every day. Perhaps one day a week she is dry but other days there are as many as 3-4 wee accidents (good with poos). There seems to be no rhyme or reason for the good/bad days. She has no learning disability issues and is thriving in all other respects. after googling the issue many times, I am consistently rewarding the good with star charts, chocolate etc and she has today told me that she gets a sweet for weeing on the loo/potty. If she wets herself she has to go and put her wet things in the wash basket at get dry clothes because previously there was only incentives and no disincentives. I am at pains to only reward positive and ignore the bad. It seems as though she simply can't be bothered and goes quiet when asked why she didn't use the loo and get a reward. I have just collected her from nursery where she has had 4 accidents today, some literally 5-10 mins after being taken to the loo. Tonight on the way home we talked about her having a lolly if she keeps her pants dry tomorrow. We get in the door and she sits on the stairs looking at a book and immediately wets herself. I am at my wits end and have just left a message for the health visitor to make an app. Her night nappies are completely full. I give her little to drink in the day to avoid the consequential problems. If I calmly and nicely ask her if she wants to use nappies again, she says "no they are for babies and she is 3 not a baby". I am so demoralised and frustrated. Thanks for any pearls of wisdom.