23mo doesn't talk but shouts & shrieks, a lot! WTD?

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DS is going through a phase (I hope it's just a phase!) of yelling and shrieking when he wants something, whether it be me to pick something up for him, or something more important like a drink. I'm hoping he's just doing it because he can't ask nicely for things yet (no words yet, although he does sign well). My response thus far has been to ignore him, but it doesn't seem to be improving. Do i just ride it out? Any suggestions? Thanks

Hi there! It's a bad time when they freak out a lot isnt it? Does DS have no words at all yet? It sounds like he's very frustrated...because he signs well he must be able to indicate things properly and this is a funny age for wondering if there could be a speech delay...on the one hand some 2 year olds' have quite a few words whilst others have only one or two...have you thought about getting him assessed?

I could be wrong but just in case there is a delay, the earlier they are caught the faster the child can be helped.

Thanks Chas, yes I've spoken to a HV who's just suggested reducing my language, which we do to a certain extent, but I know he understands well, makes all the right 'noises' and understands the basics of communication with his signs. He does try making words (moreso recently) although he seems limited to certain consonants (d,t,ch - very rarely do I hear him try b,p,ck etc). I'll certainly go back and chase the HV for a referral.

I've been wary of 'correcting' him when he shouts and yells (don't want to limit him expressing himself etc) but I don't want him to just turn into s stroppy little chap without me guiding him somehow that there are better ways to behave!)

He won't turn stroppy... I bet he's just cross. He obviously wants to talk and by the sound of it he's having a good go now! I'm not someone who really knows about all this but I bet someone on here will be along shortly with the relevant advice.

I personally think he's still very young and some certainly begin later than others and they're still just fine. Fwiw my older DD spoke at ten months and had full sentences at 18 months but couldn't read till she was nearly 6 and now at 7 she's caught up but struggles with comprehension! ...all her peers could read well at 4 plus!

My nephew didn't speak at all for a long time...he's now considered gifted and talented aged 8 and has extra classes in Maths and English to ensure he's challenged....I don't thnk it's any indication of problems down the line and you're on the ball.