My son is 3 and a half fine in all other ways apart from a bit highly strung, I am having teriible problems with toilet training. He still poos and wets himself regularly despite me trying to toilet train him for over a year now. He wears a pull up nappy at night which is usually wet in the morning. He does use his potty and toilet at the nursery but still has loads of accidents that is nearly a year now. I try to take him to the toilet every hour when I can but at the nursery their policy is to wait until the child asks for the toilet my son rarely asks for the toilet. I have tried bribery with him no use. When I try to talk to him about it he doesnt listen. I am getting really desperate I dont want to go back to nappies it is really difficult to take him anywhere cos of the possibility of accidents. If I try to take him to the toilet he often throws a tantrum. He is not too bad on the potty uses that better. Help I am at my wits end.