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Re-settling in the night

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Annie456 · 27/01/2012 04:02

DS is almost 5 months and over 18lbs and I have his daytime naps down to a fine art and bedtime isnt too bad...but the night wakings are becoming a problem and I could do with some advice on re-settling.

I give DS a final feed at about 10.30 when I go to bed and he usually wakes up again between 2-3am. I try to settle him without feeding by holding his hands and more recently, giving him a dummy. I don't feel that he needs to feed at this time as he's a good feeder in the day and us just in a pattern of getting food every 4 hours. So I keep resettling until 4-5am where I do feed him with the long term goal of moving this feed later and later until he's doing 11-7 (yeah right!)

Am I completely barking up the wrong tree here? We're due to begin weaning in a couple of weeks and then I guess he'll move to his own room so I'm sure that will change everything but for now I really feel like I need to break the 3am feed habit...
Any ideas much appreciated!!!

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happyrf · 30/01/2012 22:31

I hope so, he seems to be tiny which would account for his numerous night time feeds, when I bottle feed he seems to take less than other babies his age so I guess he has a small tum. He did a night of only one wake the other night and I felt like a different person

Annie456 · 01/02/2012 00:14

I'm just exhausted. I want to be able to go to sleep at night and wake up again in the morning. I'm constantly on edge waiting to be woken up. I cut the dream feed and first time he woke at 2 but last night and tonight it's been 12. I'm just fkn knackared.

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Annie456 · 01/02/2012 05:25

And then he woke at 4am for an hours feed followed by 20 mins of straining to fill his nappy...now after a quick change he thinks it's playtime. I am going to go mad.....Confused

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happyrf · 01/02/2012 18:42

Sorry to hear you are having such a crap time Annie, have you looked at his day time sleep, neither of mine like day time sleep which is painful to say the least but they will settle after night time feeds, swings and roundabouts a guess

Annie456 · 02/02/2012 17:47

Well he's refused his late afternoon nap for the past 2 days so maybe dropping that will change things at night. I also think I'm going to have to go back to the dream feed. Not giving it is just exhausting as I'm not sleeping because I'm waiting for him to wake up for his feed. We're starting solids this weekend when he's 5 months (5 and a half really as he was 2 weeks late and he's huge) I imagine that will change things a bit. ConfusedHmm

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bishboschone · 02/02/2012 18:26

Have you tried waking him at ten fully , giving him a big bottle and putting him back down at ten thirty /. Eleven . How long will he sleep after that feed?

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