Ds is 2.6yr and goes to nursery full time. At the end of june he started wanting to copy his sister (4) and use the toilet, over a long weekend he was dry and went onto be dry for 8/9 weeks at nursery. Virtual no accidents whatsoever, and the only ones he did have were poo accidents. During this time he also started to become dry at night, we had weekend away and went to an all day wedding, again no accidents.
Since the beginning of sept he has had accidents everyday, but more so at nursery. When it first started we put it down to him moving up to the next age group and leaving some friends behind, and that dd started school. As it continued through sept and got worse we had him tested for water infections which all came back clear. The nursery were good and started stiocker charts and keeping a potty in the room etc but there has been little improvement. His toilet habits at home remained good and we had little to no accidents but he has now started dribbling in his pants, not alot but enough to leak through.
Today i collected him and between 10 and 3 he had 5 wet accidents. I just don't know what to do, i ended up crying at the nursery manager as im so fed up of collecting him and seeing a bag of wet clothes. I'm 100% sure its not through any fault of the staff as i know other parents who are having no problems with their dcs toilet habits. If he hadnt had that long period of dryness through the summer id assume he wasn't ready, plus apart from the odd dribble at home he's dry. He doesnt like wearing nappies and hates having to wear one for bed. I tried asking him why he does it and he says because he's sad, but to be honest i dont know if this is something he's just randomly decided to say.
I dont know if it has anything to do with it but he is becoming increasingly more clingy, and has started to be quite rough in his play towards dd but im guessing this is normal boy behaviour?!
I dont even know what im asking really, maybe some advice or anyone who has been through this??
TIA