I have to Ds, they have 16 months between them. The oldest being 3 and a bit.
They go to the same nursery (same days but different rooms although they do communicate).
They always do everything together (I can't leave one at home while I go something Ruth the other, DP works really long hours so no use during the week and we want family time at the weekends).
Same play dates, friends etc...
To the extent that Ds1 runs around ds2 in the playground screaming "I love you always, always, always" in his cutest voice and catches DS2 for a big cuddle and lots if giggles. And DS2 being completely lost without DS1, earlier ds1 was in the loo and DS2 was looking very sad saying DS1 name and "gone?".
I'm just not sure their relationship is healthy? They do play with other children at nursery but still they clearly need each other to be be at their happiest. And while it is nice to see so much love between them two, I can't help but worry maybe I should separate them...
Any experience? Ideas?