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MY DS IS FIXATED ON NUMBERS

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barbet1904 · 30/11/2011 14:22

My darling DS is 3years 8 months, goes to pre-school and has a perfectly happy personality. Characteristically, he is quite bright, likes trains and TV as little boys do. Since watching Numberjacks a few months ago he has become absolutely infatuated with numbers. He literally wakes in the morning looking for his toy ones, if he loses one its the end of the world. He eats sleeps and talks numbers. He can add them up and take them away. He knows how
many of one go into another. All very clever you may think, but this is taking over our life. Even his teacher is not sure what is going on and has suggested I use the internet to try and find some presedence for this.

Anyone out there had a similar experience. He is now losing sleep over this and is dreaming about numbers.....!!! help

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PontyMython · 30/11/2011 14:35

Has he had obsessions before?

Have you noticed any other unusual behaviours or symptoms, as obsessions could be a sign of autistic spectrum.

But then, it could be completely normal - lots of DCs have favourites that take over for a while, and it just so happens that his 'thing' is numbers.

barbet1904 · 30/11/2011 14:53

Thanks Pontymython, I have jsut been reading about Autism and can rule that out I think. He has no other signs at all. We have an autistic boy at our church so I kind of know what to look out for. He seems perfectly happy and normal and maybe it will pass. but worrying at the moment all the same.

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toddlerama · 30/11/2011 14:59

My nephew lurves numbers in this way and is socially and intellectually very high functioning indeed, but he is ASD. You would never know it if you didn't spend long periods with him though. It can look very different in different children.

Sparklyboots · 30/11/2011 23:13

I quite like numbers. I often spend breastfeeds counting/ visualising patterns of numbers, it's very relaxing. I don't think I'm autistic but I'm effing good at my four times table (it makes particularly pleasing patterns, all in blue, as I'm synasethetic and four is blue for me). Anyway, I think you might like to get a chess programme for your little maths headed boy and a nice abacus. He sounds like a dyed-in-the-wool number head, and will be beating you at chess in about a week....

alana39 · 30/11/2011 23:27

DS2 is very keen on numbers. He is in yr 2 and knows more of his times tables than yr 4 DS1. He lived Numberjacks. He wakes up thinking about sums and what time each click is showing.

He has other problems (dyspraxia, foul temper every day after schoolWink) but is otherwise normal.

He's also obsessed with maps.

However -all the above could describe my dad, my sister and (almost) me. We are normal I thinkGrin

BlueberryPancake · 01/12/2011 08:01

Funny that, DS has developmental verbal dyspraxia and he is very keen on numbers - but not obsessed. We realised last week that he knows the door numbers for all our friends ('what's Charlie's door number' DS: 37!) it's like a game now. He was fascinated with the numberjacks but it didn't last for long. can count in twos, in fives, in tens, starting with any one or two digit numbers. when he was a baby he used to point at page numbers instead of images in books. etc etc etc. I just like to think he's very clever, obviously, he is my son! (I am rubbish at maths by the way...)He is in reception and he nows 2, 5 and 10 times tables and can add-substract. !! Grin

AlpinePony · 01/12/2011 08:05

I'm a mathlete, yet still I hope relatively 'normal'. A trick I used to play was have people show me very quickly their palm covered in loose change and I'd tell them how much they had. Like sparkleboots I also see numbers as colours, they're fluid for me and at school I was able to create new theorems and solutions.

One thing I really ought to look in to is counting cards at the casino! ;)

HairyHailyDiggle · 09/12/2011 14:18

Hi, bit late with my response, read this when lurking on my phone last week and just got round to joining so I can make my 1st post! Your DS sounds v like mine was at that age. When my DS was in school nursery (May birthday so was 3.4 when he started) he became obsessed with numbers and still was at the end of that summer. He quickly learnt to recognise numbers in 100,000s, could count as far as he had time too, worked out how to count in 2s,5s and 10s on his own etc. Nursery found his behaviour difficult though because he'd be counting or looking at numbers on displays etc when they wanted him to do other things, I think they also thought ASD because he was (and still is at 6) not great socially but that got ruled out. Anyway, the number obsession lasted maybe a year, and gradually stopped being a problem. Now at 6 he is fantastic with numbers and loves numeracy at school, but it isn't an obsession, he has other things to interest him (space, computers, Sonic) and we no longer go on walks just to look at house numbers!

prizewinningpig · 09/12/2011 16:00

I think it is a great sign that he gets so immersed in something. It will be a great asset to him in later life.

I would take all his enthusiasms seriously and encourage him in them. I was interested in numbers when I was a child and my dad would write messages in binary to me (Do your homework! Tea in the microwave!).

I then was obsessed with meteorology and my parents took me to an amateur meteorologists club. I used to spend my weekends comparing weather diaries with men in their fifties! I loved it and my family took it seriously.

I am still enriched and inspired by these and other childhood obsessions.

AgnesBligg · 09/12/2011 16:12

No advice whatsoever, but I love the idea of someone dreaming about numbers.

madwomanintheattic · 09/12/2011 16:26

alpinepony - ds has already started doing that in a low-key way when playing card games at home. he doesn't realise he's doing it, but he knows exactly what's left to play and (probably) who has it. he did start trying to load his own cards, but we've nipped that one in the bud. Grin

he started nursery a couple of days after his thrid birthday and could do the coins trick - the nursery was a bit freaked out with the 'shop' role play Grin

i would go up to tuck him in and he'd announce a calculation to me, as though he'd just been lying there pondering it whilst waiting.

he's nearly 10 now, and is still number crazy, but is less random about it. i assume it's all still going on in his head, but he discusses it less. still a whizz at math at school.

i dreamt about numbers for the entirety of one christmas. Grin it was when i was a student and had taken a holiday job in a jeweller where you had to input a five or six digit code into the till for each item sold. i found it v easy to memorise the numbers which saved a lot of time (some of the other staff wrote them all down), but the downside was, even when i was sleeping, i was recounting strings of numbers in my head. it was awful.

i wouldn't worry too much about hime being obsessed with his toy numbers or even numberjacks tbh. that is not really any different to any other kid getting a fix on something (usually thomas lol, but anything will do).

oh, prize. that takes me back. i used to listen to the shipping forecast at about 12 and draw up the met charts to get a picture of what the weather was doing. Blush

hopefully this has reassured you, rather than made you concerned about the bizarre lives of mners, op.

i'm not even close to being a mathlete btw. i'm an english major with an unhealthily woolly leaning towards qualitative research. quant makes me want to kill people.

AlpinePony · 09/12/2011 16:32

madwoman yes, I get you! First job was in Tesco, I memorized the barcodes. In recent years have worked for an organisation dealing in 11-digit numbers, handy not having to write them down.

madwomanintheattic · 09/12/2011 16:40

memorising barcodes! that is hilarious Grin

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madwomanintheattic · 09/12/2011 16:48

oh, op. i should add, when ds started at just three, and freaked the nursery out in a v similar way, they contacted the lea and wanted to get him assessed. the lea pulled the Hmm face and told them not to be ridiculous. they don't assess until school.

so they just embraced it and played number-games with him. unless there are other flags, i think it's fine.

prizewinningpig · 09/12/2011 17:21

Madwoman - you should have come along to the meteorologists club!

madwomanintheattic · 09/12/2011 17:24

i had no idea such a thing existed. Grin

AlpinePony · 10/12/2011 05:55

Tbh, I am a little saddened with regards to the reaction "get them tested! They might have ASD/etc.". :( I'm good at maths and I'm not great socially, but I'm not sure I'm worthy of diagnosis. What have we become? A society which regards people who are "good at something" as being outside the socially-acceptable scale of normal?

I did read recently on a G&T thread (I know, I know, I shouldn't have looked!) that someone was boasting of a family member being "super G&T" because they'd read a bunch of books on a subject and had what I would call, good general knowledge. They were supremely proud that this information had been obtained by the girl herself rather than taught in school. :(

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