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16 month DS waking for hours in night! Please help!

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Holly66 · 28/11/2011 09:15

For the last month my 16 month old DS has been waking in the night and has been talking and rocking in his cot for hours. Last night was 3 hrs between 1am and 4am!!!! He isn't distressed he just rocks and talks to himself.

I have tried the following:
Calpol to rule out teething, (it makes no difference)
Altering the temp of his room.
Feeding him more.
Have even changed his mattress to make sure he is comfortable.
Tried various PJs/sleep suits
Going to him and trying to settle, this just makes him even more excited.
Ignoring him, he just keeps talking and rocking.
Making sure he has lots of comforters.

Nothing works!

Have any of you been through this? How did you cope? How did you make it better? Please tell me that it does get better.

Please, please, please help me. I can't cope anymore!!! Its so much worse than having a newborn as at least you can settle a newborn. I can't even settle him as he just gets even more excited.

We are living with my mum at the moment and she has told me that we will have to move out soon because she is getting no sleep too. I am really struggling with going to work and with getting on with things.

DS is really moody and grumpy during the day and he is wanting to sleep for ages during the day but I am only letting him sleep for a maximum of 2hrs during the day.

Please help!

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NewsClippings · 28/11/2011 19:55

Is the room dark enough? Obviously it's night time but are there street lamps outside or lights on somewhere?

thisisyesterday · 28/11/2011 20:00

i wouldn't do anything. if he is not upset and is just talking to himself then i'd just go back to sleep to be totally honest with you!!

let him have a short nap in the day, and I am sure he'll eventually grow out of it

omaoma · 28/11/2011 20:02

jah if he's happy enough, just leave him??
why is he waking everybody up, is he talking really loudly?

Holly66 · 29/11/2011 09:48

I can't just go back to sleep I have to share the room with him and his room is right next to my mum's room so he wakes he too. His dad left us homeless so my mum took us in and I am now waiting for a council house. Even if i sleep down stairs I would have to take the monitor with me because I wouldn't hear him if he cried. And he is far from happy the next day when he has only had 8 hrs sleep.

newsclippings His room is dark but he does have a night light. I might try turning it off tonight.

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valiumredhead · 29/11/2011 11:42

Ds always used to do a funny talking thing when he was half asleep, like he was whispering to himself - he grew out of it.

Get yourself some ear plugs so it doesn't disturb you and leave him to it.

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