A bit of background -
DS is 3.2 and DD is 5 weeks. DS has always been a very happy and confident child and happily accepted my pregnancy and his new sister hen she was born. He was very proud and protective of her and would tell anyone who cared to listen about her. i some ways he also grew up a bit - starting wanting to do everything himself and wanting to use the toilet rather than potty. i have tried my best to keep his life going as normal - his usual activites, seeing his friends, going to nursery etc.
In the last week DS has woken up in the middle of the night screaming with fear and utterly hysterical. It can take half an hour to soothe him and calm him down. Last night he was scared of monsters and told me than his bed was too big for him to sleep in (he has never had a problem with his bed before now).
I know this must be to do with the arrival of DD, but what can I do about it? DD is in a cot in our room, i think he might have sussed that he is being left out, but I really don't want him sleeping in our bed too, what with getting up to feed DD. Last time he slept in out bed - 1- he licked me to pieces, not good for tender CS scar and 2 - everyone woke up when DD needing feeding.