just that really. ds is 8, his sister is two. most people dread the "terrible twos" but for us its a great time, she's just calming down and the tantrums are now a few a week rather that 15 a day as previous! he's really horrible to her at times though. teases her terribly. on the odd occasion that she comes for a kiss he pushes her away and he will never hug her. its a shame really as if im honest, she loves him more than she loves anyone, including me! i know its jealousy but unfortunatly i have no choice but to do more things for her, she's a baby. ive tried explaining this but he doesnt seem to take it in.