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Babyish behaviour

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Thetallestsunflower · 16/11/2011 19:53

Now I don't want to come accross as harsh or execting too much from my children as I am not but lately they are indulging in behaviour which is really winding me up. My DD is 5 and educationally, above average for her age, the perfect angel in school, plays really well with kids her age etc.. and my son is 3.5 with similar attributes!
However, lately, when I am not entertaining them with a structure activity such as an art and craft or actually sitting down and playing a game such as Cafes or shop with them, then they will just act like 2 year olds.
Rather than invent a game to play together like they would if playing with a child in school or a friend on a playdate, they will just make baby noises at each other or climb the furniture or ampty out one toy box after another.
Like I say, please don't think I am harsh or expecting them to be ready to take their GCSEs but I would have thought by 3 and 5 they would be capable of playing a simple imaginative game together.
They have lots of toys, we spend at least one weekend day on a family day out and I do a lot of structured activities but I need times when they play independently and the baby behaviour just drives me mad!
any suggestions ...

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nametapes · 16/11/2011 20:32

Hard as it is, either ignore it or continually try to direct them towards constructive play.
At 3 and 5 yrs (as at any age) sometimes they just want to be totally babyish, and totally daft and let off steam.If they are good at school and always putting in good effort they have to have an outlet somewhere.
Expecting them to play "Nicely" every time is unrealistic. Thats the perfect child....which doesnt exist. Kids can be very annoying, wait till they are teenagers then you will realise what annoying behaviour is.....
. . .ignore. . .

mumofthreekids · 17/11/2011 13:10

My 6yo DS and 4yo DD are both very sensible at school / nursery. At home they can be very silly indeed (eg baby talk, giggling about the word poo).

It is common for children to behave better in school or at other people's houses than at home with mum. It is a bit annoying, but better than the other way around, don't you agree?

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