Are your children’s vaccines up to date?

Set a reminder

Please or to access all these features

Behaviour/development

Talk to others about child development and behaviour stages here. You can find more information on our development calendar.

previously nice two year old turning into nightmare....

1 reply

AliGrylls · 13/11/2011 12:46

My 2 1/2 year old has all of a sudden started behaving really badly. Every Sunday morning we go to church and usually my children get complimented on their good behaviour and the fact that they play so nicely, however, this morning he was running around, screeching and about 5 minutes towards the end he emptied a box of lego on the floor. This is just as an example - for the past few weeks this is what I have been putting up with.

I have a one year old as well who has recently started demanding more attention (rightly so IMO) and I want to be able to give him attention without feeling bad however, whenever I even spend 5 minutes with him DS1 starts playing up and demanding attention. I am aware that to a certain extent, his behaviour is partially to do with DS2 becoming more mobile and needing me more, however, I do feel like I need to deal with his behaviour and I don't really feel like I am doing a particularly good job. Tactics I have tried are: ignoring, smacking and time out, talking to him quietly. None of it is working.

Please help me - it is starting to drive me mad.

OP posts:
Are your children’s vaccines up to date?
rufusnine · 13/11/2011 19:41

I did have a similar problem and I found trying to make special time for the older one helped! Explain to him that (regularly!) when little one has nap/is with daddy/is with grandma you will go to the swings/read a book/make paper aeroplanes etc etc but at other times you need him to help you look after the little one! Remember he had you on his own for 18 months so he just wants time with you on your own again!

New posts on this thread. Refresh page