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DS won't ride those annoying rides in shops ..

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sugarbaby · 01/12/2005 12:47

my DS is 3 now, and try as I might, he refuses to ride on those annoying rides you get in supermarkets, ya know, bob the builder, fimbles and the like. I know that in reality I should be grateful because it's saved me a fortune :D, but reality is that it's one of those things that kinda bothers me, because it should be fun, ds should want to go on things like that, I've tried everything to persuade him that it's fun, told him that the bravest boys ride the rides, that we can buy sweets if he gets on but it's almost like a phobia for him - he refuses to even go near them. he will look at them and say "oh there's bot the builder!" or whichever ride it is, but won't go near it. It all started when he was about 18 months old and my mother put him on a ride outside a toy shop. apparently he sat on it fine until she put the money in and then he screamed. I wasn't there for the event so don't know what happened, but something must have

Does anyone else have this? Ds is normal in every other way, he's bright, inteligent, speech is advanced for his age, it's just this one thing, and I know all kids have their kwerks, and I know in reality I'm just being silly and should just be grateful for the money it's saved me, but it's something I'd really like him to get past. any suggestions? and am I alone in this?

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WigWamBam · 01/12/2005 12:49

Why should he find it fun just because some other children do? If he doesn't want to do it, I can't see a problem - dd hates them, always has, and I can't see why I should force her into something she doesn't enjoy.

I can't stand fairground rides myself, even if other people love them - I'd hate it if someone tried to force me on one just because they thought I ought to enjoy it. Children have preferences too, just as we do.

doormat · 01/12/2005 12:51

agree with wigwam
my ds3 hates them too

Nightynight · 01/12/2005 12:54

Can I just say how envious I am?
I have 4 children, and have to hustle them past these blasted things, talking loudly to try and distract their attention.
My children were scared of Father Christmas a few years ago, I think it is normal that children have their own ideas, they wont always react how you think.
3 is very young still, he may grow out of it in a year or two.

WishYouACrappyChristmas · 01/12/2005 13:35

Hey don't worry about it - DS1 is almost 4 and has been on one once. He looks at them a lot but when they start up he gets his scaredy cat look and does a runner

myrrhthamoo · 01/12/2005 13:40

Be grateful!

poppyknot · 01/12/2005 13:52

DD1 was like this until she was about 3 1/2. USed to beg to go on THomas (not much choice around us) and then when it started she would literally shake with fear.

She is OK now but prob because DD2 likes it so much.

She is similar with swings - loves the idea but the realtiy is a bit scary.

She is fine with other things and has been on fair ground rides (very simple ones).

It was a phase but I think that she will never be a dare devil (just like her mum isn't.....).

A bit of caution is not a bad thing!

Mistymoo · 01/12/2005 13:55

My son didn't like them for a long time. He is fine now. I wouldn't worry but be quite glad as it will save you a lot of money. I don't like them anyway so wasn't bothered that ds didn't like them.

DD however is a different matter. But I still don't put money in them - what a waste.

6beetrootsAmilking · 01/12/2005 13:59

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ENIDeepMidwinter · 01/12/2005 14:00

and this is a problem how exactly...

dd1 hates them too

one of my funnies memories is of her on a roundabout in france crying silently with fear every time she passed us.

GoldFrankincenseandMerlin · 01/12/2005 14:03

DS1 has always refused to go on them too. He also has never gone on any fairground rides - even the really baby ones - and he's now 5.

But loves the roundabouts and spinning things in the park!

cupcakesbakingonanopenfire · 01/12/2005 14:04

why "should" he like them? If he doesn't want to do it, don't push him. It's not like he's missing out on anything important.
I'm sorry but I don't get it.

sugarbaby · 01/12/2005 17:17

awg thanks for all responses now I know I'm not alone. I think one of the reasons why I felt odd about it was that others had reacted strangely when I told them that DS doesn't like those kind of rides, a friend even said that maybe there was something wrong with him as it wasn't normal for children not to be into that sort of thing. I never really made a fuss about it, he says he doesn't want to ride the rides and we just say ok that's fine, I guess I just needed to know that I'm not alone

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Kelly1978 · 01/12/2005 17:35

ds hated them til fairly recently, he is three. Now, he loves them, and most of the time, I jsut tell them they're broken.

Kelly1978 · 01/12/2005 17:35

mind you, I let him on one today, and it must have been payback time, The bloody thing was broken, and wouldn't stop!

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