i thought i'll share this with you
back in feb. dd started nursery,2 afternoons a week, on her first day after dropping her off i decided to tell a little white lie at ds's school and take him away for the afternoon to spend some time with him alone(imposible otherwise because of dd)anyway we went for a walk and then sat down for a drink and just chatted away,he truly enjoyed having me all to himself,he's 5 by the way,last friday(8 months later) he did a drawing of everyone in his class and himself with one of them thinking bubbles above his head and two people sitting down inside the bubble i asked him who the 2 people were and he said it was him and mummy on our own having fun,i feel really bad about it but there's never a time where i can be with him alone as dd would go mental if i didn't take her,do any of you have any quality time with the older child? and how you do it,thanks