Hi Lexiejack
Good for you for trying this method - as long as you keep it light and fun for both of you, (sorry, all three of you), IMO it's a win, win situation!
I used this method to teach my DD to read when she was 3 and a half. She loved it and I just wish I'd used it with her older brother.
What nobody has pointed out is that Doman doesn't just recommend this method to learn to read, there is another advantage, as well.
By teaching your baby, your young child, to read, you are physically growing the brain of your child. You are simply giving the child's brain another stimulus, which, when repeated, will cause connections to grow in the brain, and these will eventually become permanent.
As Doman has pointed out, the written word is just another side of the coin to the spoken word. One is received by the brain through the eyes, the other through the ears. Makes no difference to the brain how the information got there.
As I understand it, he uses large red letters initially because, 'We've made the words too small [for young eyes]." He uses red because it is an attractive colour.
On a more general note, I think the whole Doman reading list is well worth looking at.
Apart from the books by Doman, there are a couple of other books well worth a look, Lexiejack - Kids Who Start Ahead Stay Ahead by Dr Neil Harvey, who looked at 300 kids who'd undergone a programme of early stimulation using Doman's techniques.
And 'Kindergarten is too late' by Masaru Ibuka - brilliant book.
I have a personal interest in the subject since I'm about to embark on a longitudinal study looking at the effects of early stimulation and using many of Doman's techniques. I'm very grateful to those who are dismissive of this method, as I will be able to use your arguments in my critical analysis of Doman.
Best wishes, Paul