Help! - We have constant rows in our house about taking showers, refusing to wash, washing hair brushing teeth etc etc.. Today was the last straw - dentist told her off for not brushing properly. Where am I going wrong - why is she refusing to wash ? She has not started her periods yet and I am very open about what will happen and that it is / will be very unhygeinic if she doesn't wash and she will smell - but still no use. I think I am more surprised as she is a girl, and I would expect her to want her to wash more... any ideas or has anyone else had this problem? I am sick of having to tell her to be clean...