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Walking with reins; I can't get the hang of it, help!

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LaTristesse · 23/05/2011 20:15

DS seems fine to walk with reins on but I'm finding it a struggle! I can't help but do like I'm walking a dog - pulling him back from the pavement edge etc - this obviously pulls him over, so what's the technique? How do I 'control' him?!
I want to use them because he prefers walking to being strapped in the pushchair. He's 14mo if that helps...
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AngelDog · 23/05/2011 20:21

I hold DS's hand and the reins. If falls over, I just keep the reins at the same height which prevents him bashing himself on the pavement and stops me wrenching his arm off Wink, but I can do all the 'steering' via his hand.

I do a lot of talking too - 'let's stay near the gardens / wall / fence', 'the kerb is dangerous' etc and always try to position myself between him & the road so he gets the idea that he always walks on the side of the pavement furthest from the road.

thisisyesterday · 23/05/2011 20:25

either hold his hands, or hold the reins further up so he can't get too far away from you. make sure if you're walking on a pavement that you go on the road-side yourself

5inthebed · 23/05/2011 20:28

What you need is something like this. Much better IMO as the rein attaches to the top of the backpack, is one string and has a loop at the end so you can either hold it or loop it on your arm. Also gives them a bit of freedom without them running too far.

I usually use it so both DS3 and I are holding the hoop.

Octaviapink · 24/05/2011 12:23

Reins aren't for controlling your child, they're simply to stop them wandering off to too great a distance - you still need to use your hands and voice to control them. AngelDog's approach is the right one.

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