Collected DS1 from playschool yesterday (he's 3yrs 10months) and a new boy had started. He'll be just over 2.5yrs old I expect as that's the starting age. Taken aside I was told that DS1 had been poking the boy in the eyes, when told off he'd started kicking him in the shins. What a great first day for that little boy. I feel so ashamed...
He had a serious talking to but just wouldn't seem to acknowledge us when we were trying to discuss it. We hoped it was just a one off, but this morning he's already told me that when he goes to playschool this afternoon he's going to hurt 'that boy'!! Like he's planning it!
What the hell do I do? It's so unlike him to be like this.
Should I sit it for a while so he knows he's being watched, do I tell them to call me as soon as there is an incident so I can bring him home (We've learnt in the past that the only way to get through to him is by taking away his privileges - like being at playschool which he really likes).
There are a couple of other things though, just lately he's been more affectionate towards DS and myself (and DS2!!), but he's also been waking in the night and rather than going back to sleep like he usually would he's been getting into bed with us and laying awake for ages.
Help, suggestions please!!