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Night Time Training - All Your experiences please!

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scotchbunny · 04/05/2011 09:36

Hi, Looking for as many past examples as possible for when you night time potty trained your children.

DD is 3 and a half and has been potty trained for a year. She has not now worn pull ups at night for 13 nights. This was decided by her, she has been asking for a while for 'no bed time pants please mummy'. Ok, so her pull ups were wet every morning but she knew they were a 'vessel' to wee in and would do so even if awake and lying in her bed with a potty right next to her. SO we do without, first night wet, so next night I put a pull up on her when she was asleep as I was just so sure this was not the right time developmentally for her. She woke up at 5 with a dry pull up, yanked it off, shouted to me no bed time pants and did a wee in her potty, back off to sleep. So night 2 dry, and then night 3 and 4, then we had 2 nights in a row when she was wet, but she woke up calling us and was upset, then another dry, another wet, 2 dry and this am she woke at 6 shouting that her bed was wet.

So, do I perservere? Or put her back in nappys at night? I would not care remotely if she was in pull ups longer, just I think its a shame that she does not want them anymore and I force her to wear them. But, when taking out of pull ups should a child be dry every night and thats it or can it take a few weeks to get the hang of it? I realise its a developmental and hormaone thing also, some nights she can hold on, others I wonder if she's just in too deep a sleep.

Any advice???

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buffy13 · 04/05/2011 09:43

I used to lift my daughter at that age when I went to bed about 10/11pm and she would have a wee on the loo still asleep! After a few weeks she started going through without being lifted. It worked for my stepson aged 3 too. I wouldn't put her back in nappies if its going to upset her now that she's a big girl, the fact that some nights she is already dry is a good thing, I would persevere as you are and hopefully you will soon be having more dry nights than wet :)

scotchbunny · 04/05/2011 12:26

Thanks Buffy

I don't want to go back as she doesn't want them - I also don't want wet beds to be the norm for her though! I am happy perservering however still not sure if her dry nights are just luck.

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Pkam · 04/05/2011 21:04

Two totally different experiences with my DDs. DD1 potty trained at 2.5 and then about a month later started to have dry nappies at night so we just took them off her. Very few accidents apart from when we moved house just before she was 3 and we just put her back in pull-ups for two weeks until she was dry again. Soooo easy - but nothing we did!

DD2 stated she didn't want to wear nappies at the point she turned 3. So we did as you did and stopped. Random wet/dry with no real reason behind it so we started lifting her when we went to bed. After about a month we stopped this and apart from a few accidents we've had no problems since. We do still lift her if we know she's not weed at bedtime or if we're away from home - just to be on the safe side.

You could try lifting for a while and see how you get on. Certainly I would persevere (for a while at least) even if lifting doesn't work for you/her.

scotchbunny · 04/05/2011 22:29

Thanks Pkam

We have actually mostly lifted her. Bizarrly the later she has been lifted seems to be the wet nights! Or wet am's I should say. She is always nearly dry until 6am, that has been her most accidental weeing time.

Will perservere. As you say, they has been absolutely no pattern or reasons for the wet mornings and no thoughts to when she is dry of what has worked!

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kalo12 · 04/05/2011 22:33

my ds just said i don't want to wear a nappy at night, (even though it was full of wee every morning) I said ok but try not to wee in the bed and he never has, even though potty training did take about a year to get!

so i would just persevere with no nappy. i think if you get her up for a wee in the night she will just get in to the habit of needing a wee at night

Pkam · 05/05/2011 21:41

Kalo - I was a bit reticent to lift DD when we went to bed as I thought it may mean she'd get in the habit of needing to wee in the night but she doesn't. Sleeps through no problems and wees as soon as she wakes - so a full 12 hours without weeing on the nights we don't lift her. Might not work like that for others but has for us Smile

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