He has just turned 2 and over the last month 3 separate people have mentioned his development.
His key worker at nursery has mentioned on a couple of occasions that he never talks there. He goes one day a week. He says about 5 words consistently - car, ball, more, mummy and his older sisters name. She says he doesn't interact well and won't acknowledge adults talking to him. I have noticed this but put it down to him being shy. He literally will not look up at them when they call him or talk to him.
He loves cars and will spend most of his time putting them in a long line across the floor. He gets very upset if the other children take one.
This last week he has get really upset when I've had to get him undressed. He won't let me pull up his t-shirts and holds on to them etc. Once I've wrestled them off he tries pulling them back on and clings to them. He calms down once he has a new one on but I don't understand what this is about.
He's also started crying at bedtime which has never been an issue before. He's always settled himself well. At first I though it was just the lighter evenings confusing him but now I'm not sure.
Should I be concerned and what should my next step be? Haven't seen a HV in a year - the clinics changed, the area boundaries are now different so I don't know who mine is now... Or go to the GP's?