Hope I'm getting this right, not posted before (apologies in advance if I'm in the wrong bit..)
Really struggling to know what to do. Got a dd in Year 5, age at which the friendship groups in her class seem to have settled into regular patterns, and she's not part of any of them.
There's nothing which counts as serious enough for me to have anything to speak to teachers about, just that she's told she can't join in with playtime games, doesn't get invited to any houses, parties etc, and sometimes comes home pretty upset about it all.
We've done the obvious and invited people here, but there's only so many times you can do that without a return invitation, before realising that it's not really working out. She tends to play with younger kids at playtime, and lots of them seek her out when we're walking to school etc. I think this is a good thing, but still leaves her a bit of a loner in class, and worrying when she moves up to secondary school and there's no younger kids around!
I'm not quite sure what she's doing to put other people off, or how to try and help her fit in without making her feel worse. Getting stressed!
Anyone have any words of advice? Would be much appreciated.