My DD is talking about going to the toilet, I've shown her knickers, she loved them. She will happily sit on the loo for 20 min while I read her a story or let her play on ipad.
BUT she won't tell me when she's done a wee and even when I see her doing a poo, if I ask her if she's doing or done one, she generally says no. (Although yesterday she was talking on a toy phone and said "Hello? Yes, yes, I've just done a little poo. Ok, bye...." 
SHe has done ONE poo on the loo after sitting for about 15 min or so, I was really excited but of course no joy since then.
I think she might get better at telling me about her pees and poos if she feels herself going on the loo - but I never seem to catch her doing anything!! She can sit there for ages!!! It's driving me nuts!
So my question (are you still with me?) is, will she change and start telling me she has a dirty nappy/wants it changed/has done a poo etc or should I continue to put her on the loo regularly and hope that my chances improve?
As soon as weather improves I will be doing nappy off time but just trying to work out if she's ready for training, and I think she is, is sending me a bit bonkers.
She is also fiddling with her nappy and her trousers a lot - keeps sticking her hand in her nappy (NOT good) and actually took her nappy off last week in bed, then cried when she peed all over the bed. So I feel that was another sign to keep persevering gently with getting her used to the idea of using the loo.