HITTING

[gillythekid]

My 2.7 DS has started hitting. The cats, other children, us. Not sure how to punish him. Tried the naughty step. Tried getting down to eye level and saying no. Tried smacking his hand (if you hit me/the cat/other child then I'll hit you) I've tried distracting him. Nothing is working. I've reinstalled the baby gate so the cats get some peace upstairs but just not sure how to handle him. I know it's common behaviour but it's driving me mad. Any ideas how to get through to him?

I think I would avoid hitting as it sends out confusing message.

How long have you tried the "naughty step". It is not a quick win solution. I can remember it took an hour and half the first few times that I used it, but when DS realised I meant business it did work.

The other solution might be an award chart. Find something that your DS loves. Put a picture of this at the top of the chart. For example a picture of her swimming and explain that you will take her swimming if she get enough stickers. Reward good behaviour with a sticker and take one away for hitting. I am always amazed by the power of a sticker. Good luck

JD

Thanks JD, I know you're right about not hitting him, felt awful the few times I've done it and it doesn't stop him anyway. Some people say ignore the bad and reward the good but the poor cats are being hurt and I can't stand by! He hit his friend a few times this morning and I just don't seem to be able to get through to him, he says sorry but I don't think he understands the implications of his actions. I'll try stickers.