Really need some advice, My ds is coming up to 34 months, i have never had any problems putting him to bed (didn't always sleep through but always went to bed ok). Suddenly wednesday night he starts not wanting to go to bed, keeps climbing out running off etc. not for very long though after a few attempts he stayed in bed and read. Friday morning he woke up at 1am and stayed awake until 4am, mostly staying in his room but repeatedly coming into ours, eventually (when i lost the plot a bit) he said he was scared, and when i asked of what he was pointing at toys and things that had never scared him before. So i took the toys out of sight (not convinced they were the problem). When i picked him up from nursery i asked him to show me in his room what was scaring him, he pointed to the gap between his chest of drawers and the wall, the drawers are as close as they can get due to the top lip of the dresser. we pulled it out and showed him nothing was there and he seemed happy enough saying oh it's gone now. no problem was saying not scared anymore for the rest of the day, until bedtime. He was hysterical screaming, wouldn't stay in bed for a second, asked him what was scaring him pointed at another toy, i removed it, then started pointing at his books. I said is that really scaring you and he pointed back to the gap. I think it's the shadows the curtain casts due to the light being on, he wants the light on to go to sleep (another new thing he never needed that until a couple of months ago) Then this morning went to go talk to him about it and found a big wet patch. DS still wears a nappy to bed, his pj's weren't wet so basically he took nappy and pj's off and peed on his bed, that could either be a vivid dream that he'd gone to the toilet (i used to do that when i was little) or he knowingly took them off and peed. I just don't know what move to make next. If anyone has any experience of nightime fears (or even if you don't but have fantastic advice) please help.