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Nail biting/chewing?

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KatyMac · 15/02/2011 16:06

DD (13) nail chews - she wants to stop but is struggling

Do you think if I put false nails on it might help her stop or is that just more for her to chew on?

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Tobytyke · 15/02/2011 20:48

My 4yo son bites his nails , sometimes they are sore or even bleed. I have tried everything to stop him but to no avail.

Don't think false ones are the answer they make your nails underneath really brittle and flaky (worse than ever)

PukeyMummy · 15/02/2011 20:56

I'm a life-long nail biter, and my Mum and my Gran before me. I do believe it's behaviour I've inherited but also learned.

My DH also bites his nails and now I've noticed DD (age 2.6) has just started. Sad

I've spent 30-odd years looking for a way to stop myself and have had most success by giving myself regular manicures. If my nails look nice, I'm proud of them and am less inclined to nibble.

Can your DD wear nail polish to school?

If you can afford it, why not take her for a professional manicure as a treat, so she knows how to care for her nails? Then, also if you can afford it, buy her some nice (OPI or Jessica) polish, nail files, buffer, clippers, etc. Or a stack of cheap 'n' cheerful polish (Rimmel).

What about a small manicure kit to keep in her school bag/pocket? I find that having an emery board and a small pair of tweezers/clippers in my handbag means I don't chew on scrag ends.

It might also help to identify when she chews them. Is it in school classes? Could she do something simple like sit on her hands or find something else to do with her hands instead of nibble? For me it's when I'm driving the car (in traffic or at lights), but I'm aware of it and try to stop myself.

I don't think that false nails will help, sorry!

KatyMac · 15/02/2011 21:19

No nail varnish at school

I didn't think it would work, but it was DD's suggestion

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PukeyMummy · 15/02/2011 21:30

What about a manicure without polish, then she can wear polish at weekends?

KatyMac · 15/02/2011 21:33

Maybe there isn't anything to manicure atm - she has no nail that isn't attached to skin (iyswim)

She wants to give up, but he nibbles & picks (possibly in bed)

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PukeyMummy · 15/02/2011 21:43

Might still be worth taking her for a manicure if you can find a nice salon? My latest attempts to kick the habit were prompted by a trip to a salon and they were so nice.

Take her on a Friday after school so she can get polish put on, get them shaped nicely and all of the scraggy cuticles clipped. Then take a photo to remind her how nice they looked.

Is she stressed/worried about something?

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PukeyMummy · 15/02/2011 21:58

They'd be able to do something, I'm sure. Maybe you could call or go into a couple of salons, explain the situation and see if you can find someone sympathetic?

My nails have been a right old mess in the past when I've been - mine tend to split at the sides and I nibble the cuticles too.

Don't forget, you're the paying customer.

pongonperdy · 17/02/2011 13:49

There is a clear liquid that you can paint on like you would nail polish. It is bitter as hell and would put the most ardent nibbler off.

PukeyMummy · 17/02/2011 20:31

Not this one, it doesn't, sorry pong Grin

Gives the nibbler foul breath too...

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