Just wrote a very long post outlining some issues I have with ds at the mo. Took me quite a long time to write it, get it to sound like I wanted so you would understand what I was trying to ask. Re-read it a couple of times before thinking, actually, I think I know what to do and actually things aren't as bleak as I first thought, and actually I should give myself a break and actually ds is still making brilliant progress in his behaviour, and actually everyone can have a little blip and backward step without everyone writing them off again...
So thanks to those of you who would have taken the time and given that advice but I worked it out myself just by writing it down and now feel a lot better and think I will have a glass of wine after all.
Thank you 