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home-start volunteers

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atomicdust · 25/01/2011 14:13

hello,

does anybody have direct experience with either volunteering with Home-Start or havinng receivd help from home-start?

I've just finished the prep course and I do not know exactly what to expect...

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TheCrackFox · 27/01/2011 17:04

Atomicdust - did your prep course not cover what would be expected of you?

TheSecondComing · 27/01/2011 17:26

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TheCrackFox · 27/01/2011 17:29

I was thinking journo but not sure.

atomicdust · 27/01/2011 17:31

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penelopestitsdropped · 27/01/2011 18:11

if that was what you really wanted that would be great. not only for those involved but also it may open the possibility of local voilunateering to many more.

but your persistance in trying to put your scheme and indeed the entire organisation down makes me wonder what your true intentions are.

If i could just point out on behalf of your coordinator that she will be supervising a number of volunteers and even more families, not just you. so whilst she may not speak to you on a weekly basis she will be speaking to others. she will be visiting referred families, will be attending multi agency meetings about families, will be training new or current volunteers, will be home visiting current families, will be organising volunteer supervision, will be trying to figure out ways of yet more fundraising because whatever you think those figures mean in the real world there simply isn;t enough money to do all we would like.

so no we do not earn £27k a year.
Very few of us are full time.
We do not sit on our arses all day whilst the volunteers do all the work,
and the scheme simply couldn't work without both coordinators and volunteers.

but i stand by my previous advice that is to speak to your coordinator and explain that this isn't what you were looking for prior to being matched, because i really do not think that this is the organisation for you right now

atomicdust · 27/01/2011 18:22

penelope, actually I REALLY DO want to make my volunteering experience with home-start work...and I can only think of this forum as a way of sharing / gathering experience.

and...I'm not sure I would have had such a negative opinion of Home-Start if my co-ordinator had been a bit more responsive, enthusiastic ....a bit more like you.

But the point is that she does not seem to be as dedicatd as you, even if on more money!

There's a lot in HS that I totally agree wwith, the community based networks, helping oothers, promoting good parenting and happy kids, friendship....

anyway, tomorrow is my first visit to new ffamily, so will write about it!

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mungojerrie · 27/01/2011 18:36

Can't believe the negativity, and misplaced anger (£27k, I don't think so!!) you have towards Homestart atomicdust.

I am a social worker and regularly refer families to Homestart. I would be really worried if they were matched with someone expressing your opinions.

I think you would be best off speaking to your co-ordinator and sorting all of this out before you go anywhere near a vulnerable family...

amberleaf · 27/01/2011 18:39

atomicdust

You've just finished the prep course and yet tomorrow you're visiting a new family?

You dont sound like someone whos done the training tbh and you certainly dont sound ready to meet a family any time soon.

TheCrackFox · 27/01/2011 18:43

If you don't want to do it then don't. However, I found the prep course to be very thorough and explained very carefully what is expected. This course is standardised throughout the country so I find it surprisng that you do not know what is expected of you.

The co-ordinators where I volunteer often work until midnight and work weekends. I have no idea what they earn as, frankly, it is none of my business. If I have any problems I have their mobile number and can call them whenever I feel the need.

You sound very negative about it already and you haven't even started yet.

grumpypants · 27/01/2011 18:46

How else would it work if not through a co-ordinator? Dogooders Helpful types knocking on random doors to see if anyone needed a bit of support? What a weird rant. It's like saying restaurants only need waiters or something.

atomicdust · 27/01/2011 18:46

*mumgojerrie"

I'm surprised with the negativity of your comment.

each homestart scheme is independant; why do you not accept that some schemes may have different pay policies?

Yes, I've put comments about my surprise (understatement) at how much homestart actually costs the taxpayer....but that is not saying that I do not value the work of other volunteers / somee co-ordinators...

Maybe you could list some of the exellent achievements you have seen with home-start as a Social Worker? That will more than make up for some of the negative comments on this post...

no system is perfect

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TheCrackFox · 27/01/2011 18:50

"Maybe you could list some of the exellent achievements you have seen with home-start as a Social Worker? That will more than make up for some of the negative comments on this post..."

Did your prep course not cover any of their success stories? Confused

If you do not want to volunteer with them then don't. Speak to your co-ordinator about your worries.

atomicdust · 27/01/2011 18:53

*amberleaf, grumpypants, TheCrackFox"

actually finished it just before Xmas, and went to the Xmas party for volunteers and more important families.

early january had a "get-together" lunch with volunteers, stayed in touch with 2 who live close by.

had a call last week from co-ordinaor about new family. hence the posts to be fully prepared / supported ...not sure my original intnt came through as expected
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atomicdust · 27/01/2011 18:54

I'm forever surprised with the reluctance to share any practical experience about voluteering....

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TheCrackFox · 27/01/2011 18:57

Good luck with your volunteering.

atomicdust · 27/01/2011 18:58

do you volunteer TheCrackFox?

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penelopestitsdropped · 27/01/2011 19:00

Yes, I've put comments about my surprise (understatement) at how much homestart actually costs the taxpayer

there is the problem. you think that homestart costs money.
In actual fact Homestart saves the taxpayer so so soo much more money than it will ever invest.

Many of our families are in need of help and support. in an ideal world that would come from SS but due to their own budgeting restraints that can't happen.
So Homestart picks up the slack and for far less than it would cost for a team of social workers or paid support workers would cost.

the work we do with the families will help either see them through PND so that mum doesn't end up needing intensive treatment from the MHS.
We help young mothers gain the confidence in their parenting skills, to educate on the choices they make.

help an isolated mum reach out and make friends so that she doesn't end up stir crazy or depressed.

Help a long term unemployed mum get the confidence and social skills needed to get back into work.

Help care for siblings of an unwell child so that they can recieve medical treatment with their mum by their side.

All these things would cost money if Homestarts were not there. And the fact that we assist families when the children are so young we help the parents be the best they can be. we give children a better chance of a happy childhood and therefore their adult prospects seem that much better.
thus saving the taxpayer money in the long run (no prison, youth offending untis, Social security payments, asbo's etc etc etc)

Now whilst to many that will sound like pie in the sky doogooder bull. I genuinly believe in what we do. I am passionat that what we put into the family early on we will reap in later years.

TheCrackFox · 27/01/2011 19:02

Yes, I do volunteer but I respect the privacy of the families I have helped so do not talk about it on an open forum.

atomicdust · 27/01/2011 19:05

penelope, what you said about all the long term positive benefits on the preventin side realy makes sense ...
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atomicdust · 27/01/2011 19:06

forum are anonymous!

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TheCrackFox · 27/01/2011 19:08

They are anonymous but I will not discuss my families with anyone but my co-ordinator. It can take a lot of courage to accept a volunteer and it could well be upsetting for them to see idle chit chat about them on an open forum.

penelopestitsdropped · 27/01/2011 19:09

did you not have a couple of volunteers come in for a Q&A quring your prep course?

atomicdust · 27/01/2011 19:15

yes, that's was the lunch (Q&A with other volunteers), and i kept in touch with some...

and even if they are super enthusisatic about their experience, they are far from positive about our co-ordinators at our sscheme.

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hsjfdk · 27/01/2011 19:17

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atomicdust · 27/01/2011 19:25

hsjfdk of course we all signed the confidentiality policy (same time than the CRB form).

I've just checked it, and there is no internet policy included. Do you think the paper i signed is outdated?

....and I will not put name or information specific enough to uniquely identify this family...!

in my scheme, we have "group support" every 2 months to exchange info with other volunteers? so what's different?

  • I've not attended group support yet -
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