We're starting to lose paitence big time.
DS1 turned 2 at the beginning of Dec then DS2 arrived 2 weeks later. So we don't know if the change in his behaviour is just the terrible two's or jealousy, and therefore how we handle it.
Its mainly bedtimes. DS1 will no longer nap - stands by the side of his bed crying and refusing to get in bed. Occassionally for DH he will get into bed but insists that DH stays with him (til he falls asleep so anything up to 45 mins). But more annoying is the evening routine - pretty much same thing, he'll stand in his room crying/screaming/refusing to get into bed. But it's fake crying, or starts off fake but after 30 mins it turns to real crying/screaming. I presume he sees that the baby gets attention and cuddles when he cries so DS1 tries the same. But he also wakes screaming in the night and again insists we sit with him (sneak out when he's asleep).
It's all so draining with a newborn but basically should we get tough with the terrible two's behaviour or give extra attention due to the arrival of baby?