Walking to and from school

[louby7]

My four year has just started playing up on way to and from school. I have his little brother and all the bags to carry and he insists on running off. I've tried everything, bribes, time out, carrying him! He is usually a really good boy but put him with his friends at school and its devil child. Any advice much appreciated.

Are you walking alone or with friends?

We walk alone and meet friends at the gate, then problems start. His grandad and dad also take turns with same problems :(

Mine is a bit of a runner too. I find useful - long drawn out snacks (like a bag or raisins in the buggy hood), asking questions like "do you think we should go to the soft play this weekend - which one" or "what shall we have to pudding tonight" generally something to entice them to stay and talk to you.

Apart from that - I don't know - I just grab her hand if she runs off once and she has to hold it all the way home (kicking and screaming if necessary).

Also - they are almost at an age to reason with - I do sometimes say, please stay close as I can't keep you safe if you run off - have to stay with your brother and can't be in two places at once.

Will hopefully be something they grow out of - I can't imagine a 6 yr old doing this.

Would it be too mean to borrow a set of toddler reins from somewhere, show them to him, and explain that if he behaves like a toddler, and is not safe on the walk to school, then he will have to wear them?