Am i a bad mum with hooligan kids (what do you think)

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We are members of a caravan site.
In the summer my boys were throwing berries at the shower block (which has white walls) anyway they stained the wall.The warden from the site came to our caravan followed by lots of little girls proud to grass up as they do and told us what they had been doing.I asked them and they admitted throwing the berries i told them they shouldn't have and offered to go and clean it up.Warden said don't worry.

Last weekend one of my boys went to the showers filled the sink with water to wash his hands and didn't take the plug out.I have spoke to him and he said sorry i forgot to.I told him to remember next time as it had overflowed and made a mess and he was in trouble..
I am now being told that this is unreasonable behaviour and they are not going to tolorate it.We have broke a site rule and they want to throw us off.
Now i do tell my kids off and on the whole they are good.They are two boys aged 7 and 9. 2 people in real life have laughed and 1 said they couldn't belive the fuss.They never even came up to me about the sink they talked about us behind our backs at a commitee meeting.What do you all think please?

we all do. we all got equal shares.I would love to know if there was someone i could go to

agree, totally over the top. I'd move!

if you own part of the land - surely they cant throw you off - they can make your life hell - buy you out even - but they can't throw you off i wouldnt think.

I still haven't got my letter yet.I will have to take it from there wwen it arrives.They just seem to do whatever they like.I am pretty sure from all your replies that they would get laughed out of court though.

My letter is here is this rude or am i over reacting?

Recently there have been incidents of petty vandalism occuring on site, the most recent being during the week end of 24th and 25th September, when someone flooded part of the gents toliets by putting the plug in the sink and holhing the taps on.Toliet paper has also been scattered all over the floor. Whilst I appreciate that no one actually saw your boys doing this, I cannot belive an adult would have been involved,and yours were the only two children on site at the time. Would you therefore please ensure that both your children are adequatly supervised at all times to ensure that such incidents do not re-occur.
It appears that you also do not, for some reason, feel able to abide by the same rules and regulations which apply to everyone on site, therefore I have to inform you that if you contravenen the rules again we will have no option but to enforce rule 4.
I am sure that you can apprieciate that a small community such as ours needs rules and regulations in place which mean that everone can live in a safe and pleasent enviroment.If you feel that these are too restrictive for yourself and yor family you are, of course,free to make alternative arrangements.

Rule 4 is to have us chucked off the site

any ideas for what to put in a letter of reply?

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