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Sassyfrassy · 05/01/2011 22:36

My dd2 doesn't really talk at all. She is 2years, 6 months and the only thing close to a word is gack (quack). She makes a few sounds, mam, ba, da but not many. We get a lot of pointing, holding hands and taking us to what she wants, putting things in our hands and she is now getting really frustrated.

She never really babbled as a baby and we found out that she had tongue tie which was snipped about a year ago. To add complications we're a bilingual family, I speak Swedish and DH speaks English. I know she can hear and understand. If I ask her to get her shoes, she goes off and gets them and then finds her coat, scarf and hat as well. If you whisper the word icecream she runs to the freezer.

I've persuaded DH that we need to get the ball rolling and have a doctor's appointment next week. I feel really unsure about what might happen and what help we can get, at the same time I worry about her not speaking at all and that she is starting nursery school in september and still seems like such a baby to me.

Does anyone else have experience of this kind of speech delay or know what is likely to happen with the doctor and after?

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maxybrown · 07/01/2011 22:00

wow that's poor isn'tit skydance? DS was referred in sept 2009 an was first assessed in Nov 2009 and seen ever since. He has a really weird noise that he makes constantly without opening his mouth. And can talk in very very long sentences like this - so the one to one SALT has helped him immensely - helps him in forming his mouth in the right way and finding the confidence to try - he is very very conifident in all other ways.

He has improved immensely over the last few weeks too. He has lots and lots to say, with intense descriptions sometimes - takes me age to get it all correct I can tell you Grin but you can physically see him trying hard to get the words or put his moouth or tongue in the right place

lucilastic · 08/01/2011 00:14

What also worries me, along with DC's lack of speech is her constant talking (often to herself) in complete gibberish.
Is this a worrying sign of some kind of developmental delay or a positive sign that meaningful language is just around the corner?

maxybrown · 08/01/2011 09:18

I don't think it's worrying - but it could be a delay it could just be her experimenting quite simply! My son talks CONSTANTLY, be he thinks he is saying actual words - he sounds like this "gnn gnn gnn gnn" - best way to try and type it lol, but he has his mouth completely closed when saying it - he now uses this when he has lots of words to say and he just can't get them out. It is done in perfect intonation with a couple of yeah's or growls thrown in for good measure. We have him on video like this for about 15 minutes telling us all about the castle he went to Sad thing is he knew such detail but couldn't say any of it

JiltedJohnsJulie · 08/01/2011 19:45

sassy I haven't read all of the thread but just wanted to say that your situation sounds very much like where we were with our DD this time last year.

She said very, very little but, like your DD, could fully understand everything said to her.

We mentioned it to the HV at her 2.5 check and after chatting about it we all agreed to wait a while to see what would happen.

The HV called on DDs 3rd birthday and I was very pleased to tell her that DD had gone from saying virtually nothing to a 7 word sentence in one week!

My HV is quite pro nursery and think she was a bit Shock that DD hadn't yet started nursery so nursery couldn't have made the change IYGWIM.

Think you are doing the right thing though in getting her checked out.

Try not to worry too much though, and I know that is much easier said than done.

Hope our story has given you some hope Smile

maxybrown · 08/01/2011 19:57

Jilted John can I just say I LOVE your name Grin now the song is spinning round and round in my head

JiltedJohnsJulie · 08/01/2011 19:58
Grin
maxybrown · 08/01/2011 20:11

and how many people even know what i am going on about Grin

JiltedJohnsJulie · 08/01/2011 20:12

That'll be 2 then, me and you Grin

anon1110 · 09/01/2011 14:14

Hi there,

My son is now 27 months and says very little, it has been a struggle getting help for him, as my HV constantly told us that 'every child is different' and all my family telling me I was stupid and expecting too much from him, but I ignored them all and insisted he was given a review of his development.

Now I have been told that he has global development delay, and his speech is around 8 months behind where it should be (he also didnt walk til he was 21 months).

I think if you are ever worried that you should follow your own instincts and pester people if you need to.

Now my son goes to playtalk and to be honest I am now scared what the future holds for him :(

SkyBluePearl · 09/01/2011 19:28

if her understanding is good i wouldn't worry too much. maybe visit your HV if you are concerned though.

maxybrown · 09/01/2011 19:57

MY DS's undertsanding is spot on - he still has a severe speech delay that needs intense therapy every week - so it is not always a flag that means don't worry. For my DS the ssoner he had the therapy the better as he struggles so so much yet understanding fantastic - above his years. Granted it may not always be the case with others, I appreciate

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