Trying to get my 3 yo ds into bed is proving a nightmare at present. He isn't bad at all if he hasn't napped but during hols seems to have got into an afternoon nap habit again which I'm hoping will resolve itself once normal routine kicks in in the next few weeks. Am reading no cry sleep solution for toddlers as also trying to break nasty habit of sitting with him at bedtimes. Thing is tried the gradual withdrawal by sitting in corner of room but there is not much sign of settling down yet. For those of you that have 3 yo what do you do after the bedtime routine is over? Leave them to settle themselves? If so do they do it? I'm wondering what is reasonable to expect of him.