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Problem with my son and Behaviour of another boy

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birty · 09/12/2010 20:29

My son is 11 and he plays xbox with his friends online. He is having problems with a boy who is younger than him (just 10). There is history between them were the other boy has attacked my son physically (more than once) which there were witnesses. The last few weeks the boy has been swearing and saying nasty things about me on xbox and my sons friends can also here this which belittles my son even more.The other day i asked my son to meet his friend at his old primary school, it was cold so he waiting inside outside the hall were the after school lacross was being held. This boy was also doing lacross and was the last one out of the hall who then decided to punch my son in the stomach and called him a retard. My son retaliated and hit him back. The problem is that 5 people saw my son hit the other boy but not the other way round. I am so cross and the school has decided that my son attacked the other boy and it was unprovoked! They have emailed a copy of there conclusion to my sons secondary school and im not happy that my son looks like a bully and it is not the case. I did ask how could the other witnesses see the actions of the other boy if they were infront of him (have they got eyes in the back of there heads?) Any advise on what I can do?

Sorry for any spelling mistakes

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MadameSin · 09/12/2010 20:40

Did you see the boy hit him first ? Seems like a bit of an overkill frankly .. emailing his school FGS !

birty · 09/12/2010 21:12

no unfortunately i was not there. its 5 boys
and the other boys word against my son! They only saw some of the incident

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