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my 2 yo is pushing me to the edge....

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bootus · 06/11/2010 20:01

Sorry to rant but here goes.....my beautiful, lovely 26mo DS has, in the last few weeks turned into a non-sleeping, hideous brat!!!! I am 22 weeks pg and utterly exhausted, in tears all the time and just feel like such a crap mum. Let me summarise; he has gone into a big boys bed, but his sleep which had gone slightly weird for a week or so before has gone totally downhill, he is sleeping a max of 9 hours a night and is very tired in the day which is making him fractious and tantrumy and he looks like a panda with the dark circles!!!! So, how do I get him to go through 10/11 hours a night again? We are getting 4am visits, 5am tantrums and demands for drinks when I know he doesnt need one. A few months ago (when he was sleeping well) he had started to drop his day nap but now needs it obviously though I am keeping it to a minimum to encourage good night sleeping. He is a little young to understand the reward chart/bunny alarm clock/come into mummy and daddys room when the sun is shining convo etc.
Now could it jusy be that he is unsettled with new sibling on the way, a recent start at playgrpp (which again started well and then went downhill etc) etc etc.He also seems to be suffering with separation anxiety from me. In every other respect I think out problems are typical of a 2 yr old but he is totally ruling the roost at bed/nighttimes. The stairgate is going on the door tonight. Any other ideas?Thanks

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carrotsandpeasifyouplease · 06/11/2010 20:40

My only suggestion is to drop the naps in the day completely, it will be a nightmare but it will make a difference.

I wouldnt put a stair gate on personally, i think it might just freak him out. To get through this stage I would try and not do much at all in the day, just keep it really quiet and no trips out if you can help it. I always find that trying to tire out my son just doesnt work, if he is wrecked because of the busy day he won't sleep very well. Somehow the vicious circle needs to be broken.

You are not a crap mum because your ds wont sleep for 12 hours. Good luck

StarExpat · 06/11/2010 20:50

If he's not sleeping at night, I agree that dropping the daytime nap will help. My 25 month old still naps but now for 1.5-2 hours (before it was typically 3-3.5 hours!). We limited the time when night sleep began to deteriorate and it has helped massively.
He's still a typical 2 year old, though... Must be even harder when pg and teary :( you have my Sympathy!

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