naughty corner not working, any ideas for 3 y.o

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DS 1 - 3 y.o. is pretty well behaved , but I have been using naughty corner when he does something really bad like hitting or kicking pets, other people.
This morning he hit me for no reason, then came back and did it a few more times - obviously testing to see what I'd do. I warned him twice then put him into corner, he came straight out, put him back, he kept coming out, so put him in his room and shut door, he came out after a few minutes, unrepentant.

Wondering what others do that works for this age group, DH wants to get a naughty pad or something he's seen on amazon, can't see that it would make much difference.

Any suggestions appreciated.

I would say that you need to explain to him why he is going in the naughty corner, explain to him why his behaviour is not acceptable and what the consequemces of his behaviour will be.
Consistency is the key to whatever sanction you use.
I would maybe look for a sanction that he will be bothered about, if the naughty corner is not working. Maybe take something away from him?
Or pretend to cry because he has hurt you. Or if you feel that's a bit too manipulative, try to be 'really sad' with him.
Good luck!

Your being consistant which is good, but tbh I would keep to the corner not change to his room. I would say the not doing it is testing your reaction like the hitting. Keep a pan face, stick to the same sentence everytime and eventually he'll get bored and give in.

In the meantime keep reminding yourself 'its just a phase'.

mumbar and purepurple thanks for your replies - good advice.

I'm going to stick with naughty corner but with refined technique, will make sure DH and I do the same thing as well. The putting in bedroom really just escalated things.

As I said he's not really that bad, but I need something for the very naughty times.