our 6yr old is so agressive and moody..

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I honestly dont recognise our 6yr old. She has said at school her friend has become possisive of her where if my dd plays with someone else she will get upset and tell on my dd who gets told off. I also think this friend has started shouting at my dd like literrally up to her face as dd has started to do this.

Our dd doesnt want to go to school, she is not going to bed no matter what time it is and when we say its bed time she throws a tantrum like she is 3 years old literally bangs her foot hard on the floor repeatedly god knows what next door must think. Anything u ask her to do she throws a tantrum and screams at top of her voice
*what would you all do about this with the banging and stamping when we are trying to put her to bed - we cant ignore it as its late by the time she finally will go to bed without throwing a tantrum and next door must hear her banging.

I have tried praising the positive, reward charts, sad faces and she loses privelidges but I can honestly say she is stressing us out.

We just dont recognise her anymore she is so aggressive and moody and always waving fists in your face. I just dont know where this anger is from as we arent angry do the supernanny approach praise the positive.

I think ive got to do something about her friend ship with this girl. Parents evening soon so I will bring it up there too.

Thanks for any advise.

not sure why that come up bold i guess because i starred it either end.

Also will add we lost our family pet not long ago and i know she misses it as she has said. Maybe it might be a kind of bereavement issue?

we both spend time with her too, and play and have one to one time often with her.

Is she upset about the school issue? It might be worth having a word with the teacher as soon as possible rather than waiting for parents evening. The other girl sounds very controlling, which your dd obviously knows is wrong, but perhaps she doesn't know how to deal with it and is taking her frustration out at home where she feels safe and comfortable.

It sounds a bit like she is apprehensive about what tomorrow will bring, kind of the opposite of going to bed early so Santa will come sooner...