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2 1/2 year old stammering - should I be worried?

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Cherrybug · 01/11/2010 18:49

Hi,

My 2 1/2 year old little girl has started stammerin quite a lot. Sometimes its worse than others. Its usually the start of the word e.g y y y you do it m m m mummy. It doesnt seem to bother her and she always gets the whole sentance out but I'm worried that its not normal.

We've had a very difficult time in our family over the last month where I have been at times visably upset. She knows that something has been wrong. I'm not sure if it has begun since this or if she had started doing it a bit sooner. It has also coincided with her suddenly expanding her vocabulary and comprehension of language.

Has anyone experienced this and should I seek speech and language assessment? We have no stammering history in the family. Thanks Cherry.

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lollipopshoes · 01/11/2010 18:52

ds went through this at about that age. I did take him to a speech therapist who was very good but said that they wouldn't work with him until he was 5 and basically to go away but come back if he was still stammering when he reached 5.

Apparently it's very common in younger children and only an issue if it is still going on when they are a bit older.

LadyInPink · 01/11/2010 18:56

Yes my DD had this too and guess when? Yep around 2 1/2 too! I talk quite fast and her nursery teacher spoke very very fast so i put it down to that. When i relaxed about it, it went away but think she had it for a while. Try not to worry hon, think it is quite common. Sure by three it will have gone, our's had by then. Try not to finish her sentences off as that frustrates them especially if you guess the word wrong ooops, learnt the hard way!

I didn't see any therapist but if what lollipopshoes says is right it wouldn't have done any good anyway.

BornToFolk · 01/11/2010 18:59

DS went through a few phases of stammering. Seems to be easing off recently (he's just 3). I think it did coincide with learning new words etc.
Just give her time to finish what she's saying, don't rush her or finish her sentences.

NewDKmum · 01/11/2010 19:10

My DD2 did it too at 2½ for a few months - it is quite common at that age according to speech therapists.

I was advised - as said by others - not to finish sentences or "help" her, but to look her in the eye and just stay quiet and interested until the sentence is finished.

Also, both my DD's talk A LOT, and I was advised to teach them to take turns and not interrupting each other as being interrupted might be a factor.

Try not to worry too much!

Allegrogirl · 01/11/2010 19:15

My DD went through this at the same age. DH was really concerned as he has stammered since infant school. I contacted the HV who offered to put DD down for a speech therapist at age 3, wasn't offered before then, as I was so concerned. It disappeared of it's own accord. It has reappeared mildly now she is 3 and seems to occur with a leap in vocab and sentence construction. We have made an effort to try and slow down our speech and make things calmer at home.

The British Stammering Association website has some useful info.

Tgger · 01/11/2010 22:44

Hi there,
I would ignore it.

Quite a few of the kids were stammering round our way at this age. None of them are now (4 or nearly 4 now).

I think they stammer when their brains go faster than their mouths/language ability. It's best not to draw attention to it and it will go.

Cherrybug · 02/11/2010 09:17

Thanks very much for all your advice and reassurance. It certainly helps me to relax about it and I'll wait and not worry too much.

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luckyJess · 02/11/2010 20:46

Just to reassure you...DS did had a very bad stammer that started at 2.5 and lasted for about a year. Like your DD it was nearly always the first word of the sentence and he could repeat the sound about 15 times before he would say the word. He was a very early talker and he had a lot to say, so the speech therapist thought his brain was just going faster than his mouth. He had a few assessments but never any actual therapy.

He is 7 now and still never stops talking but there is absolutly no stammer. Don't think he even remembers.

IBlameThePenguins · 03/11/2010 20:31

Hi Cherrybug,

I'm a speech and language therapist, and am currently developing a specialism in stammering. It is very usual for a child of your DD's age to stammer. Make sure you do not react facially or with body language. Always let her finish what she has started saying, and don't be tempted to finish for her. It's great that she's not bothered.

I always recommend that Mums set up some "special time" - this should be 5-10 minutes daily, with no distractions/ no tv on in the background etc. Let you DD chose an activity for you both to enjoy together. This may be particularly effective if you have both been having a rough ride of it lately.

I would be happy to answer any more questions. We also have some advice sheets on normal stammering at work, which I coul send to you if you would find it helpful?

xx

tumtum23 · 06/11/2010 21:10

Hi everyone, just wanted to say thank you to all who posted my ds just suddenly started stammering, I was worried but now feel reassured and also thanks for the good advice. I will sleep better tonight! He is a very chatty and gorgeous 2 1/2 year old! :o

victoriascrumptious · 07/11/2010 07:10

Could I please point out that stammering is a neurological condition NOT a psychological condition.

Your family turmoil is nothing to do with her stammer. Stammering is NOT caused by nerves

Stammering becomes psycological after years of feeling like a dick because of other peoples reactions

StevenBSA · 28/04/2011 14:02

Hello, I work at the British Stammering Association and was a bit concerned about some of the comments above, so thought I should write something.

As has been said, it is quite common for children to experience difficulties with their speech- around 5% of children under the age of 5 will do so. Around the age of 2-3 is when most children start to stammer, although it can develop at a later age.

In the majority of cases, they will naturally outgrow it. However, we do not advise that parents leave it to correct itself, as some of the posts above have said, as up to a quarter of children are at risk of developing chronic stammering which may persist into adulthood without intervention during the pre-school years.

Therefore, we advise anyone concerned about their child's stammer to get their child assessed by a Speech and Language Therapist as early as possible. It's never too early to act. By getting in touch with the British Stammering Association, we can give you direct contact details of your local NHS therapy service where you can refer yourself without having to go through your GP.

If you are concerned, phone our helpline (local rate) on 0845 603 2001 or email [email protected].

Stammering can affect children in lots of different ways -some will block at the start of sentences, some midway, and others at the end. Some will repeat sounds.

The exact causes of stammering are not yet fully known, but new research is suggesting that it's genetic. There is no evidence that parents cause stammering, so don't blame yourselves.

Please see this link for parents of under 5's from our website, which gives tips on what to do in the home to support your child: www.stammering.org/under5.html

And here is a link for older children: www.stammering.org/parents_info.html

For more information about stammering in general see our website www.stammering.org.

I hope this helps
Steven
British Stammering Association

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