my 3yr 10month old son has been going to nurseries since he was 8 months old,
hes been going to his current nursery for nearly 9months for 3 mornings a week.
ever so often he has a bad few days (like most of us) but every time i pick him up from nursery i am handed with a incident report about his bevaiour.
for example, he was outside playing and he threw a roller (small childs paint brush) not intential, just threw through sheer excitement and it caught a child in the arm.
my son is VERY polite and said sorry straight away, another incident was playing in a sand pit and a child told the nursery worker that my son hit her on a knee with a spade, there was a slight mark but again not intentional, and again very sympathetic
he is an only child and at home is an absolute angle, makes his bed in the morning, takes his plates out, goes to bed without a fuss every night sleeping for a 12full hours.
he is a typical boy loves cars, the rough and tumble etc etc, but feel that his nursery is making too much of a fuss over his behaviour at nursery he is in a mix toddler and preschool and very bright for his age.
i hate the drive to nursery as i dread to think whats he been like,
also my son is aware of nursery picking up on his behaviour as every time we leave he says "mummy have i been good today"
he is a very hands on little boy loves being given tasks that make him feel like a big boy " you dont think you can be a big boy and help me move ....." he jumps to the task,
he can also get very excited around other people that he doesnt know very well this always reminds me of a lion putting a mark on his territory
please help
is his nursery over-reacting?
any advice would be very welcome