ds pushing other kid's

[DaisyDaresYOU]

Just found out of another child,that my boy is pushing the kid's.I can honestly say he has not been like this before,he's copying a boy that's a bit horrible to him at school.He's had a telling off because i will not tolerate that behaviour.How do i handle this?he's in reception.i did say said name might do it,but you don't.

I wouldn't worry too much if the teacher hasn't mentioned it to you ( I was hauled in within the first week as DS is a bit rough). They come across it all the time and have great strategies for dealing with it - DS had a sticker chart for every playtime that he was not rough and it worked in under a week.

Just keep saying that it is not kind to push etc and it will sink in, especially if he is not particularly rough naturally.

Thanx.He really is a good boy,but apparently said name is a bit mean to him,i think ds is trying to get on his side.i really don't want my ds to be someone's puppy.So i'll defently nip it in the bud

I have just posted in primary as have the exact same problem, although i dont think he is copying anyone though. Also the teacher did mention it today so i'm gutted really. I do feel daft for feeling gutted mind!

What strategies worked for you heymango? I have suggested a daily sticker chart plus friday sweet shop stop if he stops??

I said if i find out hes done it again,i'll be taking his ds away.

That sounds like a great idea hairy

You could tell your DS that you are going to check with the teacher each afternoon and he will get a sticker if he has been kind (my DS had one per each play, i.e. 3 times per day). Then a trip to the sweet shop if he gets a full or agreed number of stickers.

Boys do go through this phase, particularly when they start school - think they have a surge of testosterone around this time too. It's mainly excitement I think.

Really though, you just need to back up the school if they think anything needs addressing. IME teachers are excellent at sorting the boys out very quickly.

Thanks heymango!

Well me and dp had a talk with him this morn.told him to stay away from said name,if said name pushes him again to tell his teacher

Well ds was picked up today and smacked his head on floor.teacher didnt say who.but ds certainly let me know.Teacher came straight out to me and said ds really banged it so keep an eye on him,then she went to another mum,do u think it would of been the offenders mums?