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Exhausted 11mo nth baby will not lie down

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Toppy · 23/08/2010 14:03

My 11 mo DD has just learnt to pull up to sitting from lying down using her abdominals of steel (secretly I am impressed - after two kids I can't do this). She is delighted at this new gimmick and WILL NOT lie down in her cot for morning or lunch nap or at night. Eventually after a lot of crying at night she slumps into a rag doll position sitting up but head between her legs just touching the mattress. I usually go in and tip her over but more often then not find her in this same position a hour later. She is exhausted and has darker circles under her eyes than me. I have tried tucking her in tightly under a blanket but that will not hold her. Last night I sat in her room and did a light show on her ceiling with my mini torch. It helped as she stayed lying down to watch it so I will invest in a Tomy lightshow thing but again an hour later she was sitting up asleep in ragdoll position which I find very upsetting to see. I know they are bendy at that age but it cannot be good quality sleep.
Does anyone have any experience of a baby who will not lie down ? I am just wondering whether it is a passing phase or the new normal (gulp). Any advice or shared experiences ?

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JumpJockey · 23/08/2010 14:10

DD went through quite a long phase of standing up in her cot when she'd just learned to pull herself up. She did grow out of it once she started walking and was exhausting herself a lot more during the day. I'm afraid I ended up doing a lot of feeding to sleep/cuddling her until she was asleep, then lying her down. It's a phase that your dd will grow out of. Re the quality of sleep, it's probably not very good for her breathing (think how much noise they make when they fall asleep and slump in their car seats) so if you can lie her down once she's asleep, better chance of decent rest.

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