I potty trained my children fine and they have all been fine for at least the first year. Ds2 started reception last september and I've had to be called in to change his bottom numerous times. It's embarrassing and I haven't known what to do with him. I've tried rewards, ignoring etc etc. I've asked them to tell him to go at regular intervals and he still will have accidents. Its rarely a full poo, just enough to count as one rather than a skid.
He'll then go through a week or so where hes fine and I thionk yay we've cracked it only to get another call from school. Its just poos no wees
Roll on this september and I have dd starting school (turned 4 wed). She also potty trained fine but in the last six months shes started full on weeing and pooing herself.
She was prem and though fine I was given the option to hold her reception year back a year but playgroup/school (rising five sessions) said she was settling really well and as bright as any of them so I decided to send her. Its a very young year though.
I've tried talking to her saying she can't have accidents at school and that she needs to show me shes a big girl but she really doesn't seem to get it. I beginning to wonder if I should hold her back the year.
To be honest its partly for my sake. I can't cope with having to talk to the reception teacher about it anymore. One child is an exception, two children means it must be my parenting but have no idea what I'm doing wrong or differently to everyone else.
I've been in tears, I've just had enough of poo
(I tried poo goes to pooville)
any bright ideas? Should I hold her back? what do I do? I'm supposed to sign a parent school agreement which says they are fully toiletted but shes not so what do I do.
I am so crap at this parenting business. Babies are a doddle compared to trying to make a 4 year old comply
a desperate plea of please help me (and thanks goodness Ive finally got roung to posting this)