hi- I have 2 dd's (2.6yr and 14 months) my eldest has gone through the usual toddler bashing bit but rarely ever had tantrums and i have always managed to explain her frustrations away before they get to tantrum point.
my 14 month is a different kettle of fish, i know she must get frustrated with dd1 but i do my best to play together with them, they go to park, farm playgroups, at least one thing per day so they are very social.
For the last three days dd2 has been getting unexplainable rage. we were at playgroup on fri and for no reason she started getting angry, she smacked me, the floor, the chair, the bike and then some poor unsuspecting child (she has guts this child was at least 4!). I could not work out why, she has been doing it again yesterday and today, but when she smacks she looks at me to make sure i can see what she is doing. I tell her no when she smacks me and loosely holds her hands then put her down but then she just carries on smacking things but looking at me once she has hit each thing.
She had her mmr 10 days ago and I am unsure whether she is teething (she is sleeping and eating fine no obvious discomfort) but she has only got three teeth at the moment so surely some must be on the way!
I just really need some help as fri i laughed off her behaviour but i cried on the way home as I hate that she is that angry and i can't fix it.
Any ideas