I gave our daughter a name that is familiar here in Scotland. Well, I didn't really give it her. She was supposed to be called Fiona. But after she was born I became very ill. I remember the moment she was born I was surprised very much that she was a girl, and that her eyes were very blue.
But as I was so ill there was no well baby unit so she went to SCBU. There the midwives looked after her. And when I was well enough to look after her the midwives would still dote on her, and say she was a very good baby her, and had we a name for her?
I said she'd none. So there was one Irish midwife who said, 'Well, if you ask me, she is Helen. So she is a Scot she is Eilidh.'
So we thought to call her this.
But then a very wise Canadian woman in the unit told me her niece was named this, but people in Canada would say 'eyelid'.
So we Anglicized it, for I am American by birth and my children are dual nationals by birth.
And she is Aillidh.
Sometimes when folks give a different spelling it is for a reason.
FWIW, she is every inch a Scottish Helen.
By chance my mother's middle name is Helene, the French way for her mother was French.
And if there is a face none would forget it is hers.